Happy 4-Month Anniversary

HAPPY #94 PAPPO

What’s a birthday without banana pudding & a Diet Coke at Chubbys!

 

 

HAPPY "EARTHLY" BIRTHDAY, CHARLIE

 

 

Today marks the 4th birthday this man has spent healed of MS and without the need for a wheelchair. I woke this morning with a smile on my face knowing he is well, complete and most likely still cracking jokes no one understands in Heaven. I am so blessed to have had him choose me as his partner in his life....

Happy "EARTHLY" Birthday Charlie....we are headed to Ihop tonight in celebration of YOU......

My Heart Has Expanded - Happy Birthday Wayne

Love Lives On Forever 

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 “My heart has expanded.  Because that’s what widowed hearts do.  They expand.  

One love isn’t moved out to make room for someone new....

but rather, an addition is built. 

The love widows can have for someone new, does not diminish the love for the one lost.  

It’s as strong and part of our lives as it ever was.  

But the expansion of the heart....is part of the grieving process.”

A year ago today, I introduced you to Wayne Sekerke....a Polish career Navy Chief from Pennsylvania with the gentlest and kindest of hearts and a million dollar smile.  We had met in the most Un-unique of ways......eHarmony. Personally...I believe it was actually “God-Harmony”.

I’m not going to fudge the truth here, friends.....it was HARD to tell you I was dating.  I feared you would think I was leaving the memory of Chuck behind.  I wondered if YOU were ready, not just for Liz to take a step forward, but also for yourselves to turn the page of this difficult chapter we all had been walking through.  

But the neat thing about turning the page and finding yourself at the beginning of a new chapter is that you always....ALWAYS....take the prior chapters with you.  You need them to make sense of the current chapter and I needed you to know that Chuck was coming with me as I turned the page.  Without him, this chapter couldn't have happened.

And so I told you about this amazing man this very day last year.  (See here).

https://murphys-mom.blogspot.com/2021/03/meet-me-in-middle-of-your-story.html

Today is that kind man’s birthday....and this year, I celebrate him as my husband.  And we have brought not just my late husband Chuck into this new chapter of our lives, but also Wayne’s late wife Cyndi.   This year has found me falling in love with Cyndi’s parents, Ken and Doris who have embraced and welcomed me into their lives and, although bitter-sweet for them, have been supportive of both Wayne and I.  The same is true for Chuck’s family; bitter-sweet yes....but with an accepting and loving heart as they made Wayne an honorary member of the Etheridge family.   

It’s been a year that made God smile.

Today we celebrate Wayne.....a man hand-wrapped and gifted to me for this chapter in my life.  I love that his friends refer to him as the “real deal”....”the most thoughtful and considerate man they’ve ever known”....”a Godly man”.  

I couldn’t agree more.

I love this man Wayne Sekerke....and I thank God every single day that He placed him on my path in this expanding chapter of our lives.

 

https://youtu.be/M57uH6SXXhs
 

 

A Cord of Three Strands Is Not Easily Broken

 A few years ago, a good friend from Mt. Vernon, Deborah Morris, came up to me after church and asked me if I had a shirt of Chuck's that she could borrow for a bit. As I went through my closet and looked through his shirts, I found one of his favorite shirts; it was a pressed and starched shirt (he always had to have his shirts starched and pressed) from the company he founded; Computer & Environmental Air Conditioning Company...C & E Air. I brought it to church the next week and handed it over to Deborah who proceeded to return it to me a few weeks later made into a pillow with 2 connected hearts at the bottom.

 

 It was beautiful....it was touching....and it made my heart soar!!

Fast forward 3 years.

Yesterday, I came home to a package waiting at the front door for me. Inside was the most beautiful wooden plaque with 3 corded ropes forming a cross. The words said, "A Cord of Three Strands Is Not Easily Broken", a quote from Ecclesiastes 4:12 that says, "Though one may be overpowered, two can defend themselves. A cord of three strands is not easily broken."

This is referring to the union of two people and how this union can only be successful by having a 3rd person in the marriage. God.

There are simply no words to express my appreciation and love for this friend Deborah who has walked through two important chapters of my life with me and offered her support through both. My heart is so full of love for her....thank you, Deborah, from the bottom of my heart!!

Quote Of The Day

 

Quote of The Day:

 

"I can safely say, on the authority of all that is revealed in the Word of God, that any man or woman on this earth who is bored and turned off by worship, is not ready for Heaven." A.W. Tozer

 

Just sayin'.......

Quote of The Day

 

Quote of the Day:

 

"We cannot continue to send our children to Caesar for their education and be surprised when they come home as Romans.” (On Homeschooling) Voddie T. Baucham Jr.

 

"Invisible Prisons"

LizEtheridge

Quite a number of years ago, I found myself in a place of haunting by an accusation of something I didn't do by someone I cared deeply for. I had no proof of my innocence and it followed me day and night; knowing I was innocent...yet unable to prove it.

At times like this, you actually start turning on yourself. Your mind starts questioning how this could have happened and a corner of your heart starts believing the lie of the accusation, although that same heart knows its not true. I prayed, and cried, most every day over this....the pain was great and I knew I had no way to fix it on my own and make it go away.

I remember standing in my prayer space....the shower....begging God for release from this hurt. And that is when I heard God's words in my heart as clear as I'm hearing the cat meow as I type this to you:

"You MUST forgive your accuser, Liz.

It will require you to pray FOR them....to FORGIVE them...

to THANK ME for them....and to find the GOOD in them.

And then pray for your own heart, Liz, to change."

My response? "But God, I don't want to. They didn't ask for forgiveness. Why can't You just change them?" He quietly reminded me if I ever hoped to be free from this hurt, it wasn't necessarily something I "wanted" to do, but rather something I "must" do. It was required for MY own survival.

I remember telling God I was struggling to even believe the words of forgiveness that were coming from my mouth, but that I would do it anyway. I began listing those things I loved about them...admired about them...reasons they were in my life.

“To Forgive Is To Set A Prisoner Free,

And To Discover That The Prisoner Was You”

As I walked out of the shower that day, I had begun the process of Forgiveness and the weight on my back was a little lighter. With each passing day, I repeated the words "I Forgive You" to the walls of that shower as the peace in my heart grew and I began to live again.

I felt like a prisoner being released from her cell; I was finally breathing the fresh air of freedom.

"If you forgive those who sin against you, your heavenly Father will forgive you.

But if you refuse to forgive others, your Father will not forgive your sins." (OUCH)

Matthew 6:14-15

 

Tuesdays With Pappo….on TUESDAY!!!

 

A great visit with Dad….hearing stories on his childhood & answering his questions on how he could have been a better parent to us 3 bratty kids (I think he was mainly speaking of my brother & sister tho).

He’s a pretty good guy!!

Tuesdays with Pappo: "On Wednesday!"

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Tuesdays with Pappo….on Wednesday!