Thursday, April 11, 2013

Am I Still Welcome In Your Inbox??


I feel like a stranger to Murphy's Mom Blog these days......it's been EONS since I've written and I'm not really sure why.   But I miss talking to you.......sharing all the crazy things that seem to happen daily in my life.  I hope I'm still welcome in your inbox!

Just to catch you up to speed........so far this year, we have spent no less than 98 days (maybe a "slight" exaggeration) in doctors offices or hospitals.  When you're married to a man with Multiple Sclerosis, you become used to the unexpected.

A couple months ago, we went to Dallas for Chuck's routine dermatology appointment and left 5 days later after a stay in the hospital for congestive heart failure.   The fact we live 2 hours away; brought no extra clothes, no laptop, no cell chargers and my husband has not yet learned what the big red letters that say "NURSE" on the hospital bed remote control means, I was parked in a hospital room staring out a window with a view of a wall for 5 days.  But crazy as it sounds, these no laptop, cell chargers or views times have been some of the best times we've spent together.  No "pings" from the cell....no "ding dongs" from emails.....

We plan on taking our next vacation to St. Paul Hospital in the Fall.

Hospital stay behind us, we could now concentrate on the skin cancer growing on the top of his head.  So, a few weeks ago, he had a Mose Surgery to remove the basil cell growing in place of hair on his head.  One of the benefits of being bald, I guess.  And being that I'm the "Skin Cancer Queen" and had numerous Mose surgeries myself, I kept telling him it was no big deal...you won't even see where they cut.  Chuck was convinced he was having "brain surgery".  Turns out, they left a HOLE in my hubby's head the size of a quarter.....actually, the size of a cork.  I "think" I could actually see his brain when he would take the cork out.  I would beg him to put it back in......


So his son, Troy, provided him with an alternative to the cork by buying him a hat with hair.....which I LOVE!  And because I keep telling him how "HOT" he looks with his new "Hair Hat", he wears it everywhere.  EVERYWHERE.  While at the eye doctor last week, she had to ask him to "Please remove his hair" before she could test his eyes. 


Life is always interesting with this wonderful man.......he rarely complains.....he wears a hat with hair on it cause I love it......and he whispers, ever so quietly, sweet things in my ear first thing in the morning "Liz....Liz.....what's the password to my computer?"

34 comments:

Betty said...
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Mary Bane said...

You are always welcome in my Inbox (and anywhere else)!
Mary

Dick and Bonnie said...

Well, we sure are glad to hear from you, Liz!!!! I told Dick a couple of times that ‘something’ is going on with Chuck and Liz ‘cause I haven’t heard one word for a long time. Sure enough------ you have had lots of ‘somethings’ going on!!! You two have to be real survivors for sure. So glad Chuck is doing better. That congestive heart failure sounds scary, the Mohs surgery is not FUN either. Love you both, and as I said-----so glad to hear from you. We are both doing well---nothing really to complain about for sure.



Love you, Bonnie

P.S. Dick hasn’t seen your email yet, but I know he will be pleased as well.

Donnita said...

Love the hat!!! You are always welcome in my InBox, my home wherever!!

Julie said...

Thank you for your transparency Liz. We have traveled with you to high places where we were envious of the fact that we could only be there in our imaginations, and now through your struggles with your sweet husbands health challenges. Not many would be so real and it is a breath of fresh air to me! I got misty eyed as I read this blog. I don't like to think of anyone having to go through all of this. Know that my heart and prayers are with you.

Love you, Julie

Frosty said...

You guys are amazing!! Love and miss ya !!

Frosty

Ann said...

Priceless! Chuck is a very lucky man to live with someone who knows how to make humorous events out of situations that are completely humorless!!!!! And that is a Gift!!!

Ken and Cynthia said...

You are VERY VERY welcome in this box.

Ken

Jeannette said...

Your so funny Liz.....thats why I like you so much and my hubby Loved you too. Your sense of humor is always welcomed with me...thanks for the info on Chuck to let me know whats going on in your life.

neighbor Jeanette

Wayne said...

Liz,

Next time you are in Dallas you must call me. We can meet and visit a while.
If you need a place to stay, please call us!

Tell Chuck we said HI, and we are wishing the two of you well................


Wayne N Sylvia,

(ps. I Wish I had purchased your RV when you put it for sale)

Betty said...

Liz and Chuck: Was so happy to get your e-mail. Missed all the newsworthy things happening in your life. Tell Chuck I loved the HairHat. He does look sexy.

Love and God Bless you both
Betty

LEO said...

"You bet Liz!"

Margie said...

So very god to hear from you!
I adore Chucks hat !!!!
We are busy getting ready for the season here at pprvpk.
Wish it would warm up, it's been cold (like January weather).
Dan was up to a manny & peddy yesterday, I escort him & he pays! What a deal......
Keep up the blog......
Margie

Helen said...

Wondered where you were – yes, I missed you. Also miss my friend Nyla – she always enjoyed your blogs.

Next time you “get stuck” in Dallas let me know – I’ll come find you. Love an adventure.

Have you seen my friend “whats her name” lately. Its about time for them to go looking for bluebonnets.

My best to you and to Chuck and I love the hat. Helen Mc

Charles Kurtz said...

ALWAYS 8-)"

David Werst said...

Know what you mean about staring at the walls in hospitals. Hope things are more on the upswing for y'all these days. Tell Bur howdy and we think of you often. Ramona is improving, but another surgery scheduled for 15th of April.....not a big surgery, but have you ever had a small surgery? Anyway... we're coping, y'all are coping., and hopefully improving.

Jackie and Joe said...

I have missed you and I've missed the wonderful Blog. Enjoyed the pictures of Chuck...what a wonderful wife you are....you all are a terrific blessing to each other.

Sandee said...

Sandee said...

Dearest Friend,

I've so missed your blogs. Please send them to me/us. Love you, Sandee

Virginia said...

Virginia said...

"Always! We love it."

STu said...

Anonymous Stu said...

Liz you are always welcome in my inbox. Should have called me when you needed the help.
Stu

Rita Ray said...

Anonymous Rita Ray said...

Great to hear from you. You are sooooooo funny. Miss you!

Anonymous said...

Love seeing you back on!!! Hope to see you in person soon.

Love,


Carla

Jan and Joe said...

honestly you have the most wonderful outlook I have EVER seen! Your articles are fabulous. and we love the hair hat. I just had mose surgery myself - pretty fabulous. We pray for you both. Love, Jan

Jack said...

He and you are so cool! Thanks for the update. See you tomorrow.

Grace and peace

Jim said...

It's about dang time! I was thinkin' you had dropped me off the distribution list. Man do I love hearing from you guys. This is going to sound freaky but I had a Mose procedure in the EXACT some place as the " cork " . I wish I had thought of that cause I am sure that some of , what is left of my brain , escaped. Making me the second stupidest guy in the country.

Liz said...

I have had you on my mind strongly for several days. Have thought of you many times in the last months. My life is crazy, but God is providing. I think of you and Chuck so much and wonder how you are. I really, REALLY want to see you. Not sure when. No reason. If I called you, would you tell me if it was a bad time for me to come up for a quick visit? I just miss you. Much love, (and I so mean that) Liz

Lulu said...

U n Chuck are 2 of most amazing people I know u face life with a smile an positive attitudes...I greatly admire the way u face difficulties that would overwhelm a lot of people including me. Love u guys with all my heart an pray for u.. Keep cards an letters coming keep positive attitudes

Jug & Donna said...

Hi Liz,



Hope you remember us and just wanted to say of course, you’re still welcome in our Inbox! We really enjoy hearing from you. Stay yourself and God will take care of the rest.



Jug & Donna

Darlene said...

Liz you are always welcome in my inbox. :) You are blessed with the gift of putting down your thoughts in words and making all that read feel apart. We pray for you and Chuck as you walk out this journey. It is hard, and we become weary at times with our struggles, but through it all we grow spiritually and our relationships grow strong. HIS word says "we are more than conquerors" and through your words, we are inspired by your strength and your sense of humor. Tell Chuck we love his new hair. :)

Ant Ellie said...

You are always welcome in my mailbox.....if fact your blog is the best news I
get.....I too love the
HairVisor......really neat. But taking your next vacation at another
hospital...wow. Hope you don't eat, drink or touch anything.....just be very
careful. I love you both lots and lots.
ant ellie

Ant Ellie said...

You are always welcome in my mailbox.....if fact your blog is the best news I
get.....I too love the
HairVisor......really neat. But taking your next vacation at another
hospital...wow. Hope you don't eat, drink or touch anything.....just be very
careful. I love you both lots and lots.
ant ellie

Joy said...

You always make me feel better. You are one of a kind, guess that is why I love you. Hope all is well with Chuck now. Why didn’t you call me while you were In town. You could have stayed with me, at least showered and taken a break from the hospital. Hope my man is out of the woods. You two are so lucky to have each other. I miss Donnie so much. Life is such a bitch without him. He was the love of my life and still is. Have a great week-end and I will talk to you later.



Joy

Jan and Joe said...

Honestly you have the most wonderful outlook I have EVER seen! Your articles are fabulous. and we love the hair hat. I just had mose surgery myself - pretty fabulous. We pray for you both. Love, Jan

Elizabeth said...

Hey Liz, You are always welcome in my inbox, and was greatly missed by the way when I hadn't heard from you for a while! I had just thought about how ya'll were doing this last week too. Sounds like it has been a frustrating time of it. You are always in my prayers. Sure hope we get to see one another again one of these days. Liz