Thursday, December 31, 2015

Keeping Our Heads Above Water......Chapter 3

December 30, 2015

There is so much I want and NEED to tell you about Chapter 3, that I'm finding it hard to know where to start.

 So, with grateful tears in my eyes as I type this,  I'll start where Day 3 started.....holding hands in a circle in a very wet driveway to pray before the day started with at least 10 people showing up at 8:00 am from our church, our community, our neighborhood, all to work.....on our house....for free.....because they love us.


Dear Amazing and Wonderful Heavenly Father.....This storm that was meant to hurt us, has only blessed us....over and over again as I look at the faces of these people who have arrived at my doorstep on their holiday vacation, because they have hearts full of compassion and love.  Your love in them, Father....and these tears falling off my cheeks right now are tears of JOY.....not worry....not fear....not loss.....but pure Joy.  And I thank You for each and every one of these people You have placed at our doorstep this week....Dean, Melissa, Corrine, Coleman, Cameron, Nick, Brent, Zach, Dan, Cindy, Terri, Brian, Becky, Larry, Beau, Beau's Dad, Troy, Doug, Jack, Ellen, Brady and many others.  I know no other words other than "Thank You.....Thank You."


Yesterday is a blur.....my Supervisor Dean organized these guys to measure up 2' on every single wall in our house....make a chalk line....knock out the Sheetrock....haul the Sheetrock to the ugly green canoe and take it to higher ground.


This went on all day....while my girls, Terri, Ellen, Cindy and I went through my very, very embarrassing messy closets and made decisions on what was salvageable and what wasn't.   There's an intimacy about sharing that one closet in your house where you open the door, throw items in and shut it real fast and I think as close as these friends and I were before, we're closer now because they visited this closet of mine.

There were hard things to let go of.  And I'm not talking about expensive clocks or antique pieces of great value.  I'm talking about my very first doll...her name was Softie....same as my nickname my Dad gave me when I was born....who I had to let go of yesterday.  It was tough to put her in the unsalvageable bag.  Very hard.


And then there was our company purged files in a different closet that couldn't be saved....and I pray a second prayer of never getting audited.


And I'm going to repeat the scripture I mentioned yesterday to you....Genesis 50:20, "You meant evil against me, but God meant it for good."  Let me just say friends, as I stand in a home that barely resembles the home it was this time last week, I am humbled...because so much GOOD has come from these last three days.  Relationships I thought were dead, have now been restored.  New friendships have been formed.  Existing friendships are stronger.  And in my book, relationships are far more important than a Softie doll or a little missing Sheetrock.



And at the end of the day, when all the workers have left and I'm standing in the middle of what would appear a sheer mess but all I can see is sheer LOVE everywhere I look, another truck pulls up with two men in it who just drove in from Dallas after working a full days work, to work a little longer on my house....because they love.


And I'm beyond humbled......


21 comments:

Ann Holland said...

Dear Sweet Liz,



I have been following your emails and you have been in my thoughts and prayers! Your flood has been shocking to watch! I’ve been self-absorbed in my own moving (I’m a one-man show) that I’ve felt bad not to be part of your helpers! I’m still in the process of moving, but I’m surely able to provide food. Is Becky your “food organizer”? If so, I would be happy to bring a meal … just ask Becky to let me know where and when the food train runs low, I’ll be there!! In fact, I’ll give her a call.



Bless you sweet lady … your strength is amazing to watch!

Ann

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Charles Kurtz said...

Liz, we so admire you, first for you strong faith, for many wonderful friends, and for your strength to carry on. Please know that we love you and Charlie and you and yours are always in our thoughts and prayers.

Ellen said...

Your new home will be extra special, won't it.

Unknown said...

Liz, Blessings to you all, I wanted you to know you have been at the top of my prayer list. You and Chuck are such awesome faith filled strong people you will survive all of this. I am sure it is an honor for your church family to be able to help you. Much love to you all. Lisa D.

gastlysmom said...

Your faith is amazing and a true testament !!
love you

Unknown said...

As I told you earlier today. You've always cast your bread upon the water and now it's returning to you. Just never thought it would floating through the living room. Love you brave sister.

Jeanne said...

Liz –



Don’t throw Sophie away! Take her to a place that restores dolls – like Dolls Remembered or some other place. I think you have “paid forward” so much that it’s all coming back to you through these angels who are coming to your aid! Slowly, but surely, you will get your home back!



Jeanne

Terry Waldrep said...

Your faith is a true testimony of what life should be all about

Nancy Zachary said...

So sorry for your water problems. I am available for any assistance I can give you two. Much love.

Barbara Alford said...

Hang in there Liz God has this. Happy 2016 to you and your family. Hope to see back together soon and hope to study the Bible at FUMC with you soon.

Kristin Y said...

Hoping this will be a blur in the rearview mirror soon. Hang in there.

Laurie Pace said...

PRAYING for each day you find more blessings in both those that love you there helping ...and in the the beauty of rebuilding.

Jim Crittendon said...

God bless you Liz

P.J. said...

You are such a blessing . Praying for you all and sending my love.

Beverly McPherson said...

I have been following your blog and have been so touched by your faith and love. God bless you.

Kathy said...

Hooray, Liz, that you are able to SEE THE LOVE and experience it in such a powerful way. God is so good and He is showing just how good. I have been going and blowing this week....working today and tomorrow even while Anne is here or I'd be right there too. Save SOMETHING for me to do :) Maybe a meal at least....just ask for anything else you can think of.

I don't know any of the people you listed, but may God bless their wet socks off....and that canoe shall always be your friend. Keep her in honor of her value to you. Or hang her on some wall! Ha. How is Chuck during all of this. Easy going, I bet. You're a trooper and I do hope you're getting plenty of rest. I hope you're going somewhere tonight to celebrate the new and better year for us both~

Love you,
Kathy

Margie said...

My dear friend Liz, I wanted to write to say that I am so very sorry. I didn't realize how bad it really was for you there and that the water had actually reached your home. I am, however, very happy that you guys are okay and that you have such wonderful friends there to help you out in many ways. Have no doubt that you and Chuck will be in our thoughts and prayers. Sending a lot of love and many big hugs from the both of us. Margie

Brooke said...


Aww - friend. Love how you are documenting this with such grace. God's good gifts are evident and you are sharing them with all of us. Thank you for giving Him the limelight in what the enemy intended for evil.

Love you lots and wish I could be there but I would be of no help with 3 little attachments ;0

Cheers to a new year of making each other more like Jesus.

Nonia said...

When I looked at the dock in pic it looked like a coin there…..some one in heaven loves you and you will b ok. nonia

Phyllis said...

Liz Calloway Etheridge you are such an inspiration to us all! Thank you!!! God is moving in powerful ways! Praising and Praying nonstop precious friend!