Sunday, October 4, 2020

Ashes To Ashes....Dust To Dust

 



“All go to one place. All are from the dust, and to dust all return”
Ecclesiastes 3:20

This week, I loaded up the Jeep; threw in two wonderful girlfriends, and headed west to Pikes Peak.  It was something I've put off doing for almost two years....and for some reason, NOW was the right time.  I wanted; no..no....needed....for Chuck's earthly body to be set free.  We climbed 14,000 feet into the sky....14,000 feet closer to Heaven....and released Chuck Etheridge's body back to the earth.

Before we headed west, I placed his ashes into three small toolboxes he had used for as long as I knew him.  I know it sounds crazy, but if you knew Chuck, this would make sense.  As each of us opened up our tool boxes on Pikes Peak, we watched as the winds returned him back to where he came.  I find it interesting that his favorite things while on this earth came from his tools...tools that repaired and restored broken things, and God...well, He also is in the business of repair and restoration of broken things.  He wants to repair us and our pasts by giving us a future.

We said goodbye to his body this week, but not his soul...and our hearts are happy to not hang onto the memory of Chuck as people who have no hope, but rather, as people who know and trust in a future healthy body for Chuck someday. 

"But we do not want you to be ignorant, brothers, about those who have died,
so that you may not grieve like other people who have no hope."
1 Thessalonians 4:13
 

 

46 comments:

Ruth Greene said...

How beautiful, a wonderful tribute to your loved one and reverence to the one who loves us eternally. πŸ₯°❤

Cheryl Lewis said...

I love everything about this moment!πŸ₯°πŸ₯° This is such a beautiful way to release Chuck’s ashes... All the great times that you had in what my parents always called God’s country because you are truly closer to God @ that elevation!!! I’m sure he is smiling down knowing you are smiling back up! Hugs my sweet friend😘

Anne Edwards said...

Your words offer so much comfort and inspiration, Liz...What a beautiful person you are....God’s Angels surround you....

Carla Melcher said...

It was a most beautiful and amazing experience. I have no words to describe what we each felt. Overcome with emotions is a mild statement. Happy I could be there for my friend of 47 years. Will see you again someday, Chuck.

Jackie Carlson said...

Wonderful that Chuck has a resting place on this beautiful earth. I agree with Annette he was a very special person. Love this picture sista!

Jackie Anderson said...

You will forever make beautiful memories with Chuck. This makes me so happy.

Kay Frazier said...

Liz I can’t put into words what a blessing you are! Chuck was a fortunate guy to have you in his life! God love your heart to follow thru with your journey! πŸ™πŸ™πŸ™πŸ™πŸ™

Nancy Beauchamp said...

I wish I had known him, but I do know him through you, sweet Liz
. May you have some sweet memories of him always. ❤❤❤

Randi Taylor said...

Oh sweet friend, you have such a way with words! I have been praying for you this week. I know Terri would have been would have been on this journey with you. Closure. You needed closure. Praying God comforts you and wraps his arms around you as you let go. Praying for good memories and a bright future! Hugs! πŸ₯°

Annette Rutherford said...

Oh dear Liz. Sitting on the dock early this morning, I thought about you and all the wonderful photos you would post from your dock. Thanks for the beauty you add to our lives in your words and photographs. Your Chuck was special, this was a perfect way to leave him in his earthly home. Safe travels.

Donna McFarland said...

So very perfect and befitting of the love you and Chuck shared. Beautiful passage and place. Love you friend.❤

Pat Hudson said...

Thank you Liz for sharing this special moment with us! Such an awesome picture just as you are! Much love to you! ♥️

Bob Kerr said...

Your comment about Chuck and his tools strikes a sweet cord within me. As you know Liz, I now own a good majority of Chucks tools. I use them almost daily. Therefore. hardly a day passes in my life that I don't have a fond memory of Chuck. Every time I flip the "on" switch on any tool in my shop I have a fleeting thought of Chuck!πŸ₯°πŸ˜

Lauren Herman said...

I have been with you in spirit on this trip. Love you and wish I could give you a big hug. You are amazing.

Brenda Loinette said...

Oh, how I love you and you are so loved by so many! I hope you realize the impact you make on all of us always.

Linda Moore said...

The picture says it all Liz. Joy in fulfill ing this calling. Special day, special friends. Much love.

Sharla Rocka said...

What a beautiful time to remember and to be thankful. Thank you for sharing this time in your writings and pictures.

Sherrie Wilson said...

My sweet friend, your beautiful heart and love for Chuck shines bright. Just a demonstration of the love of Christ. Thank you for showing me how to love my Sam.

Ann Anderson said...

You are unbelievable. Thank you for sharing this journey so beautifully

Brenda Ritchie said...

My eyes are leaking. Thank you for sharing this special time with us.

Tommie Smith said...

Liz ,
I have no words . Your words & photo speak the story of yours & Chucks great love life ❤️πŸ™❤️

Marlene DeLeon said...

Thank you for sharing this beautiful moment with us. ❤️

Bonnie Shea said...

I love this Liz! You’re the Best! ❤️❤️

Pepper Puryear said...

Your hope is louder than your grief, Liz. As it should be! Press on!!

Julie Edwards said...

This is so beautiful. Prayers for continued peace.
Enjoyed sitting with you last night too...and meeting Cindy!

Terry Waldrep said...

I know your heart is so full of love and memories of him and now he is set free❤️❤️

Lillie Bush Reves said...

God has blessed you, Liz❣ May He continue to bless the journey you are on now.πŸ™πŸ™πŸ™ Keeping you in our prayers❣

Lorinda Kennedy said...

Beautiful!

Laurie Pace said...

Our love is with you, Gods love encircles you. Be blessed in this journey

Susan Bentley said...

Beautiful!!!

Grace Horton said...

I absolutely treasure you sweet sister. Love love love you!

Charlotte Byrd said...

Love to you Liz!

Brent Gardner said...

Just beautiful Liz

Pamela Barnard said...

What. beautiful picture.

Ellen Louro said...

Beautiful

Sally Tran said...

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Denice Buchanan said...

We’re all virtually hugging you Liz, through all the emotions you must be feeling. I know you know we love you dearly. 😘 Just Breathe https://www.facebook.com/WillieNelson/videos/299467418046976/?vh=e&extid=0

Mickie Hunter said...

What a glorious way and place to release Chucks ashes! What a blessing you were to Chuck and to those of us you call friends! Your precious words are always a blessing to all of us!! Love you girl❤️❤️

Jan Wright said...

You are one special lady! Love ya

Holly Morris said...

πŸ₯°πŸ₯° Your words give such life and hope. I’m so glad you were able to do this and so glad I got to see you for a second last night

Mickie Hunter said...

What a glorious way and place to release Chucks ashes! What a blessing you were to Chuck and to those of us you call friends! Your precious words are always a blessing to all of us!! Love you girl❤️❤️

Kristin Simmons Burr said...


Wonderful message and trip! I need to do the same with Glen’s ashes. Have not found the perfect spot. I did realize some into the ocean on Father’s Day after he passed. My goal was to take some to places we talked about going to. I still may do that. ❤️ Big hugs to you!

Tonni Kimbrell said...


This is such an inspiring way to let our loved ones be at peace!♥️

Hope Tafoya Thomas said...


Beautiful my friend πŸ’™

Diane Matthews Ramsay said...


I wish I was with you!

Gail Lee said...


I agree